Happily married (yes, happily even though I'm here). I know some are not ok with that (because she doesn't know). Looking for a friends with benefits connection with someone who likes to chat and would like to eventually meet. I'm straight - just interested in women. I'm reserved - in a group, even online chat rooms, I'm rather quiet. I love to compliment and try to be positive. I can be shy in person until I get to know you. I'm very inquisitive...I don't want to be *nosy* but I'm genuinely curious about a lot. I like to learn and if I'm asking, I'm actually interested. I don't live in Columbus but a little further to the west. Obviously needing to be discreet, I didn't want to put the small town. I don't exercise as much as I'd like but I'm wanting to change that. I love to be outdoors! And I love to please! I'm here for friendship and sex - nothing open and public. That should be self-evident, but... I'm quite ok with straight forward sex but I'd love to explore in a variety of ways... to a point. (I'm straight, not bi.) I can't spend the night (almost never). I'd *consider* a MMF (or preferably a FFM) but I expect I'm at the back of a very long line of guys interested in either. I've heard of women wanting someone who has not done everything that moves. I've been friend zoned more than successful. I was the guy in high school the girls treated like a brother rather than the potential boyfriend. I'm the guy typically overlooked, not the guy singled out. I love the outdoors. Camping, hiking, fishing, hunting... Since the writing ideas mention music, I'm one of those Nebraska weirdos who does not like country music! I'm a classical/pop/rock music fan.

My Ideal Person Are you also looking for a friends with benefits...maybe a no strings attached kind of thing? Is meeting in person something you'd consider?

An "ideal" person? Lol. Ideally someone who wants a connection rather than just a hookup. Someone who enjoys foreplay. I love foreplay, really giving more than receiving but I've not had the pleasure of receiving much "touching" other than a little oral for foreplay. Discretion is extremely important! I don't care if you're married or single but please respect the mutual boundaries we each want - you respect mine, I'll respect yours.

I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But obviously people have preferences. I think tats can be incredible but I'm not a fan of many facial piercings. I have a trimmed beard...I know facial hair can be a turn on or turn off.