FIrst things first....What I'm Looking for: ( If you are a single man much over early 40's stop reading now...I am probably not interested ) 1. Younger St8 or Bi Male ......I'm NOT trying to turn someone gay in case you're wondering. Someone with energy / stamina, a little adventure to them, into edging , massages / fleshlight, exhibition with women ( or men if that's your preference). 2. Fit couple..30's-ish or younger. Adventurous / insatiable / athletic / discrete preferred. 3. One or more ladies, again fit / athletic and adventurous with some discretion but have a kinkier side that needs some gratification that is best served by younger 18-25-ish type men without you having to put in a lot of effort to track them down. Exhibitionist....Role Play.....Insatiable.....Fun If that's you....then continue reading. If not, please don't waste your time ......or mine. We all like what we like.....I respect others listed preferences, please respect mine. As for me, I am a 48 year old business owner. I am also a journalist, professional photographer and an ordained member of the clergy...really! and budding hypno-the and mandolin player (just two things I've always wanted to do and now have time for). I do a fair amount of traveling although am trying to cut back a bit, and consider myself to be a reaably nice guy. I tend to be a quiet type publicly and much more dominant and controlling in private / sex situations. I have interests in exhibition / voyeurism, control, bondage / toys, role play, and other things. I can be a bit of an "organizer" in that I like to put things together and watch the results at times.....which I would like to think are fun for everyone involved. Outside of sex I am involved in sports on several levels, I love good food and wine, I like a good cigar on occasion, photography / videography / blogging for relaxation. Despise politics. Don't care for deceptive type, drama lovers or people without any sense of discretion.

My Ideal Person I like people who are outgoing and confident in public but can be a little more submissive sexually. Insatiable types open to ideas and adventurous.

I really like guys to have some muscle tone, be athletic or fit and be clean / well kept. Generally white or hispanic......same goes for couples and women. Tattoos and piercings can be very hot.

As it seems to come up on these sites......I am a social drinker. I do not "party". I don't care if you do, that's your business. I do however care that you are disease free, honest and relatively non psychotic.

I live in a distant outer ring / suburb of the Minneapolis / St. Paul metro area. I can sometimes host, can travel or can get a hotel room if necessary. I don't mind a little travel for some good fun.

I would prefer some ongoing things but I guess time will tell on that.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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