I am tall and in pretty good shape. I enjoy the beach, dancing, going to Bay Area sporting events, plays, movies, and just hanging out. A good DVD with a fun per and a glass or two of wine can be great. I am very shy at first and am shocked really I am doing this. Not sure if it's a good idea or not. I guess I will find out. My membership is standard and cannot look at profiles or communicate easily. Just wanted you to know. I know I have a wild side in me, but it's buried very deep in me. I have tried to keep my past buried, but memories surface it seems more and more.

My Ideal Person I am drawn to older men, and recently thniking of being with a woman again. I really like men at least 10 years older than I am or more. Sorry, but men my age, even in their 40's or younger are not as attractive to me. They have a way to open me up and letting me relax and be more me. So if you are older that's a VERY good thing for me.

I like a very assertive partner. One that takes charge of things and brings me along. Don't want to lead or take control. I need someone that can take time yet be VERY demanding too. One that will push my limits, and make me expand my desires. I know hard to find.

I also have had this fantasy to be with a woman again. It's growing more and more in my mind over the past few years and I thought I would be safe putting that down here. Not sure if anyone will respond anyway. But I feel I would ike the same traits in a woman as a man, but not sure that the age thing is as important. I guess I will see.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Stones, Green Day

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am going to meet someone I have not met, just talked too
a few times. We clicked and I am nervous and excited about
meeting him. We plan on a local bar for a drink. I show up wearing
what I think would please him. I wait an hour and he doesn't
show. Upset, I feel he has changed his mind, or worse, saw
me and didn't like what he saw and left. I have a few drinks
and decide I should go. I depart through the ally to my car.
I take a few steps and a hand wraps around me and pulls me into
the darkness, from behind, he says, I have been waiting
for you, and with that takes me right there, I try to stop
him, but he does not let up, and eventually I am his to do as
he desires. He takes me and leaves. I alone in the ally go
to my car, full of him. When I arrive home, an email is there
telling me that he will meet me again the next night.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I am not so impressed with "who" someone is vs.
what they are inside.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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