we live together, love together, laugh together, cry together and we play together. Same room play is a must, full swap is an option. We don't mind thirds, but historically, if we play with odd numbers, it's likely to be 3, 5, 7 or 17. We prefer to know all that we play with, and if the number is smaller please replace the word "prefer" with "insist". This also of course leads to the "first meet is greet" rule. We won't rule out the chance that the chemistry between us and you won't be so amazing that we might hit the hay on the first meet, buuuuuut the chances will be likely matching the chemistry for that to happen. We prefer couples, although we have made a RARE exception for a single with a FWB. Please understand rare means rare, and guys, you'll have to prove you're a rare, desirable, cool, funny, intelligent type that becomes "Honey approved" before your start exhorting your stable of FWB's to pique Velvet's interest. Also, for the guys reading this; crossing swords is OK, but no stabbing. If you have to think about what this means, keep browsing. Ladies, please, be at the least, bi curious and wanting some training. We're into most fun kinky things, but nothing too freaky. "Territory marks" are allowed, if you ask nicely, very nicely. Role play, cosplay, foreplay are all awesome, and more awesome if you know how to combine these things. Soft bd, cuddlepuddles, hotel parties are also all considered awesome in our book. Special Kudos are given to those who are well versed in dirty talk. [B]We can host[/B], and ideally, it would be nice to know people that can also host, (ahem) even better: host with a hot tub! (but this isn't a deal breaker, lol) Outside of the bed, we are fairly open minded to a lot of activities. We're looking for couples to have fun in and out of the bed with (as stated above). We're not into manipulation, lies, drama, or head games. [B]For Him: [/B] sexy is an attitude, it's the attitude that's sexy. In the longer run intelligence, charm, wit, personality and humor all have their advantages. As for visual turn-ons, Velvet has a soft spot (or make that a hard spot) for petite Asians, redhead, some blondes, lingerie, lipstick, and fearlessness. [B] For Her:[/B] Tall men, dark men, guys with good sense of empathy, understanding, intelligence and charm. A little well versed dirty talk and role play will charm her well in the hay. She likes a little Dom, but nothing out of hand. (tbc)