Here is a bit about me. Love me or hate, take it or leave it, no apologies... I will give you [U][/U]MY[I][/I] idea of the perfect date. You should be able to draw your own conclusions about me from reading this... But if you decide to contact me, BE SERIOUS ABOUT MEETING. I have talked with quite a few people here that talk a good game online, but that is all they have. When it comes time to meet, they mysteriously disappear and I never hear from them again. Please don't waste either of our time... Thank you! (winks!) We spend all afternoon in anticipation... Getting ready for dinner out on the town. And I don't mean the drive thru at Mickey D's, I mean an elegant sit down dinner in a classy restaraunt, where we both try to look our best for the other. The dark cozy corner booth has been reserved. This will be VERY romantic! ME? I don't know if I am wearing a suit and a tie or if I am dressed a bit more casual. I will have asked for your input so that I can be sure I am able to look my best for you. I want to be as pleasing to you and for you as I am able... (I can pull off boots and jeans too... Maybe tomorrow morning, but not tonight for you, for us...). Before I leave to meet you, a grab a spray of my favorite "magic" cologne so I can have that smouldering, animal, "male" scent that makes you want to crawl to me, curl up and get lost in my arms... You? Well for you this is a "little black dress" occasion! Have fun with it! Take it all the way! Freshly done nails, earrings, your favorite necklace that you save for special occasions, lingerie, stockings, heels, that expensive intoxicating perfume that drives the men wild... Everything and anything that makes you feel like the unbelievably hot, sexy, sensual being that you truly are deep down inside your soul... Oh! Look! It's almost 7pm! I will be knocking on your door any second...! You grab your purse and I offer you my arm as we walk to the car. My head is spinning as I try to take you in. You are truly stunning! The hair, the makeup, the perfume and oh, that little black dress! I tremble inside as I think of what I want to do with you, but I keep my calm cool type "A" exterior intact. I am the perfect gentleman as I open your car door and help you inside... We arrive at the Restaraunt and are taken to our table (we almost didn't get the booth in the corner, but I insisted!) As the first glass of chardonnay starts to go to our heads, we both slide a little closer to each other. We each SO desire to be in the other's "space"... Small talk, shy glances, a blush here and there until dinner arrives. It is amazing food. It melts on our tongues and adds another facet of pleasure to an already wonderful evening. Another glass of wine... Our senses are piqued and we are now VERY in tune to and with each other. I melt a little as every now and again I catch a shadow of lace peeking from under the hem of your short dress, or glimpse the shimmer of satin from a strap across your tanned shoulder, the desire continues to build with each little remider of how blatantly feminine you truly are... We order a desert of raspberry cheese cake... as we occasionally and playfully feed each other a bite, our arms as well as our minds are now intertwined. Our hands touch each other and feel & roam ever so slightly. The warmth of your outer thigh, your bare foot caressed only by nylon, rubs against my ankle and up my leg a bit... What we are feeling, and the electricity flashing through our bodies is certainly not all because of the wine... We both agree with a raised eyebrow and a sly naughty grin, that it is time for us to go. Dinner is over, but the night is just getting started... I pay for dinner and we head to the car. I unlock your door and you start to get in, but I can hold back no longer! I grab your hips, spin you around and pin you with your back against the car! I have to taste your kiss!!! I cannot hold my passion for you inside any longer! We melt into each other as our lips meet and out tongues touch... We do nothing but kiss! We Kiss for the sake of Kissing! Kissing in and of it's self is such an amazing expression, and we express ourselves very well! Our passion is ready erupt, but we both pull it back in check so we can make it back to my place... I fumble for the key to unlock the door to my apartment. The tension, the lust, the desire has got us both ready explode and we can fight it no longer! I shove the door open and all the anticipation of the evening comes to a head and boils over!!! The door slams as you are pressed against it! Agaoin our hungry mouths meet! Buttons cannot be undone fast enough! Shaking hands frantically grasp at zippers, buckles and snaps! Kisses fly! Hands roam freely! Moans escape! This is what we have been desiring, lusting and longing for...! There is a trail of clothes and underwear from the front door, down the hall and straight to the edge of my king sized bed... tonight however it will be "our" bed!!! A long, sensual, romantic, lust filled night, of passion and very vivid imagination ensues... Desire sweeps us away and we get lost in each other, in oursleves and in the incredible pleasure that takes our breath away... Hours of foreplay lead to that final few seconds where nothing else in the universe matters but the ecstasy that courses through our bodies like electricity through the lights of a city at night! We fall to the bed exhausted... A beautiful mess of gratfication, sweat, makeup, cologne, perfume, spent desire and most of all complete contentment and satisfaction. After playful conversation and more kissing, we drift off to sleep... I roll over and you are still sleeping. The sun is up. Your hair is a mess. What is left of your makeup is smudged, you have sleep lines on your face. Your clothes are mixed up with mine on the floor... You have never looked so good... You stir as I get out of bed. "Would you like sugar with your coffee", I ask... You just grin at me sleepily with that same naughty grin I remember from last night and say in a sultry sleepy voice, "...hurry back". As I round the corner into the kitchen, I catch a quizzical look from my curled up in the corner... I grin to myself and tell her good morning. I have to get this coffee fixed and hurry back... Can anyone out there see themself in that little black dress??? In case you are wondering, Romance is not dead! I love it! Part of romance is that connection. I want and need connection prior to or at least along with, sex. Sex is good. But foreplay, Kissing, anticipation and imagination is what makes good sex mind-blowing, incredible and memorable! Right now anyway, I am not looking for a soul mate. I am not looking for a wife. I am looking for someone that desires passion, romance and does not want to be alone or lonely when their most basic needs push their way to the surface. Don't get me wrong, I do need my space and alone time... And I will respect yours too. Not always does it have to be dinner. It can be shooting pool somewhere. It can be a walk down a dirt road looking at the freshly fallen snow (don't hit me with a snowball or I promise, you are in trouble!!!) It can be a bag of popcorn, a fleece blanket big enough for two, and our comfy sweats on the couch, watching "Captain" Jack Sparrow in his eyeliner and mascara, save the girl... and sometimes, it can even just be that spur of the moment, late night phone call that says, "how quickly can you get here, I need you NOW!" Joking or serious, playful or passionate, as long as there is some kind of connection, then it will be memorable. If you think you could handle feeling like this, and if you think you can handle me (I really am a handful, I am warning you! lol), then you know how to get ahold of me... Looks do play a part in all of this chemistry (and I used to think that chemistry was only that class in high school that I got a "C" in!), so please include at least a face picture when you get in touch... I know you are out there looking for me... I hope we come across each other soon... Until then, Bye Bye 4 now...

My Ideal Person A woman that desires passion and romance. Here is what I like so hopefully she will too...
I LOVE LOVE LOVE to kiss!!! Deep, long, romantic kisses! I could do that for hours... (OK 30 - 45 minutes anyway...) I love pillow talk after sex. I swear it is the truth! I am so amped up afterwards that it takes me awhile to come down...

Lingerie is a must! I am an extremely visual being. What I see plays a huge part in the overall picture of lust and passion. Lingerie is so very intoxicating! Just a glimpse of a bra strap across a bare shulder can send me into convulsions! lol Pantyhose, lace boy-shorts, satin teddys, pushup bras, black stockings, garters with all their snaps and hooks and fasteners, and all the other yummy things out there (WHEW!)... Take me to Vickie's Secret and I am like a little boy in a candy store! (OMG! I think I need a cigarette! AND I DON'T SMOKE!!!)

Laughter! I love to laugh! I need to laugh! I have to laugh! I have overcome insurmountable personal and emotional tragedy in the past 4 years. As a result, I am 100% in tune with my mind, my body, my sexuality and my sensitivity. Laughter and a sense of humor is a must for me!

Food! You have to like to eat food! I love to go out and eat and have a glass of wine. There are so many good places to eat! Even just a piece of pie is great! BTW, do you like pie??? Pie is like the oral sex of the food world! Cake? good. Cookies? ok. Pie? OMG! Get it? lol

Let's just have fun, ok?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Hmmmm... On one hand I want to and could get very detailed,
but on the other hand, I may want to leave something for us
to talk about later... <br><br>
I will say it involves lots of lingerie, a toy that is just
the perfect size and two glasses of chardonnay to start
things off... <br><br>
Think you can keep up with me??? lol

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere, Back at "her" place after just having met...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, Almost anything without serious pain, No farm animals!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Honestly there are several celebs that are sexually attractive
to me, but as far as fantasizing about having sex with them,
Not really. I like to keep some part of my fantasies attainable
if all the conditions were right. Celebs don't seem
attainable... That being said, she is not mainstream hollywood,
rather she was in porn for years... Nina Hartley. She is
amazing! lol I know, it sounds laughable that I would say
that about a porn princess. But she always had fun and was
laughing and smiling and enjoying the sex! She never took
herself too serious like so many others appeared to...

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