I am 43 years old, single and want to experiment sexually. I can sometimes accommodate. I am interested in sexual activity of all kinds with anyone who likes cross-dressing as part of the experience. I prefer fuller, constricting clothing such as tights, corsets and swimsuits. Excessive body hair turns me off and I like to shave all over. I find make-up and perfume adds to the experience. I am relatively inexperienced, but will go all the way with the right per. I reckon the best foreplay would be showering/bathing together, followed by mutual massage. One thing I really want to try (only done it with a woman so far!) is sex outdoors. My fantasy location is a beach. If this sounds interesting, please drop me a line!

My Ideal Person I am looking for tolerant, adventurous, open-minded people who want to explore alternative sex - "a walk on the wild side".

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I get really turned on by the following scenario:
A bloke chats up what he thinks is a "respectable"
businesswoman, dressed in skirt suit, button-up
blouse, tights, court shoes and full make up.
She responds to him and he gets to touching and
fondling her. Eventually he feels up her skirt
and gets a shock to discover a big bulge in the
front of "her" knickers. However, he is so turned
on by this time he just has to shag "her" anyway!
In this fantasy, I could play either party.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An office

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Spanking, Role Playing, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Fisting, Swimsuits

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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