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Public Place Always 4/29/2016
I have found that when meeting for the first time it is always
the safest to meet in some agreed upon safe, public place.
There is always time to go somewhere if the chemistry clicks
and each want to take it further. If not agreeable, it is
easy to walk away in a public place.
I once met a beautiful mid aged woman who had texted, then
talked by cell and wanted to meet, presumably for ...
5 Comments, 54 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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Confirm ID and Dating Safety 4/22/2016
We are HUGE advocates of the Confirm ID process that Local Shemales
offers. First of all, it costs nothing to do and it gets you
2000 points for free! Second of all, when reaching out to
others who might be nervous that you are either fake or you
are a person that means to mislead them or do them harm, it
lets them know that you are a much safer bet than many others,
because your actual name and address ...
2 Comments, 65 Views,
20 Votes
,6.57 Score
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Illusion of Delusion 3/31/2016
I recently met a member who contacted me claiming to be something
he was clearly not. I erred in not taking things more slowly.
There is a tendency for men on this site to rush and "close
the deal." This is understandable because the more
time women are given to think and process information the
more likely "no" is. A few reasonable correspondences
on this site are not enough to agree to meet ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
25 Votes
,6.23 Score
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Keeping yourself safe 2/2/2016
I was recently asked about meeting a couple from my area.
I agreed to meet in a very public place and informed them
I would be accompanied by a male. They asked why I thought
it was necessary to bring someone who wasn't going
to be involved in any activities we might decide to engage
in. I replied that as a single female it was for my safety.
Their reaction was out of this world. Asked if I ...
18 Comments, 256 Views,
40 Votes
,6.75 Score
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"Sexual respect" and "Sexual disrespect" -The power of "Yes" and "No". 1/17/2016
The community here, and most any dating sites, being usually
fewer women, there is a concern about sexual respect from
men, towards women. As any civilized community, that is
usually enforced.
However men don't talk about a woman's sexual
disrespect of the male. Men don't report it, don't
talk about it, and usually dismiss it as not important because
we're men. But really, sexually ...
2 Comments, 90 Views,
51 Votes
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So someone wants to travel to see me... 12/25/2015
I've had a few people say they're willing to travel
to see me. I realize a lot of them are just saying that and
there are others who are visiting around my area so they're
not here for me but they want a quick fuck (which isn't
my thing).
My questions is this: is there like an acceptable distance
threshold? Like if you're in San Diego and want to see
me, that seems normal. But lets say ...
13 Comments, 138 Views,
38 Votes
,6.64 Score
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Some of these Men think they are going just go F.ck 11/16/2015
Some men send me a message "come over to my house and
let's f.ck", They are not thinking right. We
need to set a time up to meet each other, see if we are attracted
and like each other. I am not a free . Sure
and call girls will come over as soon as you envite them,
it's business and money to them. These are grown adult
men acting so immature about trying to get laid. This the
real world, it ...
10 Comments, 98 Views,
31 Votes
,6.79 Score
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straight guy wants TS/Shemale 11/1/2015
I'm a straight guy, separate for 3 years, with
whom always had a fantasy of being involved in a sexual intimacy
with a TS/Shemale. I've seen a lot of videos online
n I must say there are a lot of very feminine looking sexy
attractive TS/Shemales whom I would love to be intimate
with. I would like to meet a very feminine girl with big tittis
n a cock no bigger than 6". She has to have a feminine ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Doms 10/17/2015
Should they be used under [in] all circumstances [meetings]?
I was with the same lady for over 20+ years, before she left
this world -for a better place I pray- and I refuse to wear
the damn things. I tried once & she loved it, but I didn't
really feel much of anything and the latex gave me a rash
that lasted for days. Now, I try to explain that I'm
'fixed' + D&D Free. This seriously limits
my ...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Keep safe 9/21/2015
Ask questions out with people's comfort zones.
2 Comments, 17 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Know What You're Getting Into 8/31/2015
I was drinking one time and I had been chatting with a lady
online and before I saw her pictures I sent her some pics
of me including some dick pics and then she sent me her pics, and
I was attracted to her, but I realized that I was drunk and
so I stopped the chat abruptly and didn't respond to
any more emails.I had said that I was thinking about going
to her toewn, but I never said that I was ...
8 Comments, 156 Views,
18 Votes
,3.81 Score
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your date takes down your license plate number 8/27/2015
you have a date and decide to get a room and enjoy intimate
time together, he says he needs to go get ice, I look out the
curtain to see what he was doing . He was writing down the
license plate number off my car. The question is why is he
doing this ? Your date is dicreet, but to mee that is not right
to do that. He can have it traced and find out where I live.
That is danger. Nothing ever ...
7 Comments, 114 Views,
18 Votes
,4.63 Score
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Meeting 8/15/2015
Where's the best place to meet?
3 Comments, 33 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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General Rules 8/15/2015
1. Never leave your drink unattended. 2. Don't be a slut 3. don't let random dude grope you at the club 4. carry pepper spray 5. Buddy system 6. Don't get roofied 7. ihop is a fantastic dating spot if you want to avoid getting
"taken advantage of" 8. Wear a chastity belt at all times and swallow the key 9. get a chiuaua to carry in your purse, make sure he is vicious
10. stomp a bitch if ...
3 Comments, 53 Views,
26 Votes
,6.58 Score
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He was a no show, or was he ? 8/13/2015
well, I went to my meet up at a café, but he never showed up.
OR did he ? I noticed a man sitting in a blue truck as I was going
into the café. I looked at him, and went on in. I finally
left after having iced tea and cinnamon roll. As I was going
to my car, the man was still parked there. I got into my car
and drove away slowly. Then, in the rear view mirror he was
driving too. I turned out ...
10 Comments, 155 Views,
23 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Most pressing thing 6/15/2015
with advent of many crimes it becomes very important that
one is very careful, choosy while dating some one who has
been met online only. The following steps might be helpful.
1. meet in public place (with lot of people around) till
u develop confidence 2. try to get references. 3. try for a common friend. If found try to dig more information
4. Don't take any decisions when u r horny
5 Comments, 43 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Would you like to know when.... 5/10/2015
Having sex is fun, rewarding, intimate and in our nature.
Knowing when your partner is having an orgasm is a turn on
and adds to the sexual experience. Some people like to know
when their partner is about to cum and cumming, so my question
is for both men and women do you like to know your partner
is about to cum and is in the process of cumming? Also how
do you like to know, verbally(I am going ...
3 Comments, 40 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Guys meeting up for suck/jerk... 5/3/2015
What are guys' experiences on here for this kind of
meeting? Would you say the same advice for meeting up with
a woman applies? Haven't done this yet, so I'm
just curious. Have read some of the advice on do's and
don'ts on men meeting women, and they all seem sound.
Anything different to add? It seems like most of the guys
I've chatted with just want another cock to suck and
be sucked, and ...
4 Comments, 94 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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protection 4/18/2015
When you meet someone from this site, is protection something
you insist on, for unwanted pregnancies, STD's, etc?
13 Comments, 94 Views,
22 Votes
,4.33 Score
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Knowing when it's cumming 3/27/2015
Just a question for all of you bored sex lovers out there..
are you able to tell when your partner is about to cum the
first time you're having sex? Or is it just something
you come to know the more you get to know them?
5 Comments, 43 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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tips 3/14/2015
out of all the times ive met up i never had any problems but
i still take precautions i will meet in public places if
requested but usually meet at/around residence me personally
i always text my brother the address of where ill be and who
i will be meeting and where i know them from and give him a
certain time to hear from me by as a precaution im a pretty
big guy and can handle myself but ...
3 Comments, 43 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Dating Safety 12/26/2014
I am surprised when people do not take simple steps for their
own safety. No matter how much you think you can trust someone
you have just met, caution is the best way to go. Meeting
in a public place is a must as is making sure you have some
understanding of who they are. There are stalkers of both
sexes and we all need to be safe.
9 Comments, 139 Views,
28 Votes
,3.86 Score
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Never 12/17/2014
I would never meet a womanat a hotel if I hadn't met her
in person first, I know a guy who got robbed off another
site
10 Comments, 98 Views,
35 Votes
,4.21 Score
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Ample 12/2/2014
Let's just say I'm a large girl and I don't
want any naked pics on our profile. My question is would
pics help if I were fully dressed in them?
14 Comments, 148 Views,
33 Votes
,4.07 Score
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Do you wonder? 11/28/2014
Since joining this site do you ever wonder sitting in a bar
or restaurant if the people around you are meeting for sex
or thinking about which of them you would play with if they
were swingers?
14 Comments, 107 Views,
28 Votes
,5.81 Score
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11/23/2014
Would you agree to have sex with another couple at their
house if their were there in bed sleeping?
7 Comments, 110 Views,
18 Votes
,4.08 Score
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Married women are hot but married men are discussing. . why? 11/15/2014
Why is it that married men in the eyes of single women are
trash? But married woman are sexy?
10 Comments, 126 Views,
22 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Would you feel safe? 11/13/2014
Would you feel safe going to a club that specialized in bondage?
7 Comments, 74 Views,
14 Votes
,5.54 Score
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Couples Joy 11/13/2014
What would be ideal in safety when hooking up with couples?
6 Comments, 50 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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Three's company 11/12/2014
I often get asked to meet couples in places I don't know
and when I tell them that I want to bring another couple with
me for protection they think I'm crazy. Am I being overly
cautious?
19 Comments, 129 Views,
46 Votes
,5.46 Score
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